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Practical thought beautifully put in words! The four horsemen of the relationships apocalypse you are talking about: Criticism, Defensiveness, Contempt and Stonewalling are applicable to almost all, only the degree varies. Till the time the degree of the mentioned apocalypse is with in limits, it's good and keep you lively. Only when it crosses the certain level or degree, it starts creating problem and thereafter the point of no return is not far off. Therefore, keeping the mentioned apocalypse in limits is not only desirable, but a mandatory requirement to keep the relationship going.

Infact, without them, life may be boring, so to keep it natural & live, these apocalypse are required, but in Controlled quantities. If these are not there, then you are either a perfect match or the other person has surrenderd himself or herself to the other so called better half.

THODI NOKE-JHONKE, THODA PAYAR, CHALTE RAHO ZINDGI MEIN MERE YAAR.

A very good practical write-up considering all possible aspects. 👏 to you

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